The allure of the older man

What is it about older men? When I was a gay man in my twenties and thirties, 20-something men never paid me any attention. But as I approached my mid 40s and beyond, suddenly there was a subset of younger men that were totally into me. It came as quite a surprise, even though I myself had found many an older man to be attractive.

Some see the mature man as having more authority and control, an inner calm that bespeaks confidence, masculinity, ans security. They see the greater range of experience as an indication of reliability and substance. For them, older equals wiser.

Others simply find older men to be more considerate. One friend of mine, who in his single days tended to go only for those many years his senior, reports that older men always treated him with so much greater respect and courtesy than those in his own age group.

For myself, I find men of all ages to be attractive. But there is something to be said about a guy who has had plenty of experience in bed and the fun that can bring to a hot encounter.

A case in point is my friend Tom (or GoodToms in his online persona). A man of sexy maturity and sensuous skill, Tom knows how to make a man feel good. Eventually we decided to see how our chemistry translated into film. To find out for yourself, head over to Sexy Time Theatre and check out our newest video, Tomfoolery. There's no better evidence of how hot some down and dirty Daddy-on-Daddy drilling can be.